Author: Lucia Csoma

  • Do you overthink after you sent out an email?

    Do you overthink after you sent out an email?

    When in doubt ask and follow up I clicked ‘Send’ and then… I waited. I worried. I questioned it. I wanted to go back and unsend it. I doubt it. I regretted it. I blamed it. I experienced shame. I checked my emails several times a day… In most cases, I would get a response…

  • Easily Distracted ?

    Easily Distracted ?

    Task-switching is costing us as much as 40% of our productivity* I don’t believe I have ADHD but I do believe I’m constantly tempted by many things I can do, need to do, want to do, asked to do, and it’s becoming harder for me to focus on one task at a time. Here’s my…

  • Are you camping in the past, present or future?

    Are you camping in the past, present or future?

    “My life was over, and I never got what I wanted.” This verse touched me deeply from the poem “Present Tense” by Jason Lehman. — It was spring, but it was summer I wanted, The warm days, and the great outdoors. It was summer, but it was fall I wanted, The colorful leaves, and the…

  • You alone can do it, but you can’t do it alone.

    You alone can do it, but you can’t do it alone.

    “You alone can do it, but you can’t do it alone.” – O. Hobart Mowrer I find that life is more enjoyable when I surround myself with people that can support me in different ways. Here are a few people I find very important to have in my life: – Someone I can talk to…

  • Forgiveness is Freedom

    Forgiveness is Freedom

    Forgiveness is freedom. For more than half of my life, I couldn’t forgive someone who repeatedly hurt a loved one. I was afraid that letting go meant… … agreeing with what they’ve done … allowing them to do it again … that I was wrong What I didn’t realize was that by holding onto the…

  • You alone can do it, but you can’t do it alone!

    You alone can do it, but you can’t do it alone!

    “You alone can do it, but you can’t do it alone.” – O. Hobart Mowrer I find that life is more enjoyable when I surround myself with people that can support me in different ways. Here are a few people I find very important to have in my life: – Someone I can talk to…

  • Top 3 Fears Leaders Have

    Top 3 Fears Leaders Have

    Top 3 fears I see leaders have that are getting in the way of their #success: 1. Vulnerability 2. Imposter syndrome 3. Unable to deliver on the mission #1. Fear to be vulnerable Good #leadership is when we show up authentically. We admit when we don’t have all the answers and we invite our team…

  • Apologizing is Growth

    Apologizing is Growth

    “I was wrong.” “I made a mistake.” Just typing these words makes my heart race a bit faster. It’s never easy to admit I’m wrong. I find that fear is the most common reason that wants to keep me from admitting when I’m wrong. This is often because of all the scenarios I’m playing in…

  • I can get better at this

    I can get better at this

    From “I’m not good at this!” to “I can get better at this!” When my self-talk was “I’m not good at this” nothing would change about the status quo. I would throw myself a pity party. I would feel totally hopeless. I would be upset with myself. I would blame my upbringing. I would stay…

  • Fulfilling your New Year Resolutions

    Fulfilling your New Year Resolutions

    Only 8% of people achieve their New Year’s Resolutions* There is an explanation for this and some tangible things we can do to increase these odds. Studies** have revealed that we’re thinking of our future selves as the best version of us. When we set goals we don’t set goals for the current self to…